Why Marriage?

Because to the depths of me, I long to love one person, With all my heart, my soul, my mind, my body… Because I need a forever friend to trust with the intimacies of me, Who won’t hold them against me, Who loves me when I’m unlikable, Who sees the small child in me, and … Continue reading →

The Story of Us

I met Greg at WNED in Buffalo just after New Year’s in 2008. I remember the day I met him, in the hallway, and exactly what I was wearing. Black sweater with bright green flowers. It was a gradual friendship, involving me finding any excuse to talk to him, including things like needing a new … Continue reading →

Vegetable Soup with Hamburger

This weekend I had the pleasure of taking care of my 81 year-old grandmother, V, and three dogs. I was supposed to have help from Greg but he had to go in Saturday for what was supposed to be a few hours that turned into almost a full day. I’m not totally convinced he wasn’t … Continue reading →